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♞♞博马♞♞波波教你如何修心养性 ' ?# p$ W, `2 N X! i: ^
修心：使心灵纯洁
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( z4 l1 z" w0 u8 t/ N7 [ 养性：使本性不受损害。通过自我反省体察，使身心达到完美的境界* B0 @$ l: W6 g0 X" V. [) N! I4 a" Z
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" `, V$ F: B# `0 Q 怎样做到修心养性呢？$ Q7 u- q! C, m" D! ?
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1. 生活在当下
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( ]9 K0 j M; a+ {3 }0 A不要老是惦念明天的事，也不要总是懊悔昨天发生的事，而把精神集中在今天要干什么上。因为遗憾、悔恨、内疚和难过并不能改变过去，只会使当前的工作难以进行下去。
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2. 生活在这里
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我们对远方发生的事无能为力，想也没有用；杞人忧天，徒劳无益；惶惶不安，对于事情毫无帮助。记住自己就是生活在此处此地，而不是遥远的其他地方。' E$ t+ j( l! y
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" K X3 u7 | y- i$ E) ^4 O0 b, L* K4. 暂停思考，多去感受
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6 G( w* Q& x5 x+ u u很多人整天所想的就是怎样做好工作，怎样考出好成绩，怎样搞好和领导、同事的关系等等，因而往往容易忽视或者没有心思去观赏美景，聆听悦耳的音乐等等。格式塔疗法强调作为思考基础的“感受”，比起思考本身更为重要。没有感受就无从思考，感受可以调整、丰富你的思考。4 p! m% b2 n+ l8 j% a
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/ I& E& [! E- S5. 也要接受不愉快的情感
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1 [) i3 o* m$ O: ]愉快和不愉快是相对的，也是可以相互转化的。因此，人们要有接受不愉快情绪的思想准备。如果一个人成年累月，总是“愉快”、“兴奋”，那反而是不正常现象.
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人们往往容易在别人稍有差错或者失败的时候，就立刻下结论。“格式塔疗法”认为，对他人的态度和处理人际关系的正确做法应该是：先不要判断，先要谈出你是怎样认为的。这样做，就可以防止和避免与他人不必要的磨擦和矛盾冲突，而你自己也可以避免产生无谓的烦恼与苦闷。
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7. 我就是我，对自己负责
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人们往往容易逃避责任。比如，考试成绩不好，会把失败原因归罪为自己的家庭环绕不好，学校不好；工作不好，会推诿说领导不力，条件太差等。把自己的过错、失败都推到客观原因上。“格式塔疗法”的一项重要原则，就是要求自己做事自己承担责任。
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: F/ R2 j7 h; r. ]1 O+ [, {把自己摆在准确的位置上。每个人在社会中，都占据着一个特定的位置，所以你就得按照这个特定位置的要求，去履行你的权利和义务，你如果不按照社会一致公认和大家都共同遵守的这个规范去做，那你就会受到社会和他人对你的谴责和反对。
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修心养性益健康! I F6 Y" O# \7 K" Q: [. d
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修心养性，就是让人心不致动荡不安，达到陶冶情操，平衡心态，事事想得通，顺其自然规律，积极适应环境，把握好自己的情绪，做到控制好自己心情，不生不切实际的妄念。这样人体心情处在心平气和状态下，生理功能平和有序，达到了养生保健，心理平衡，心态良好，这种状态就有利于身心健康。$ e2 b) L! n) `' p! J: L
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在此，波波特此与大家分享修心养性之道，不仅在人际生活中，事业中，而且在进行投注的过程中，也是起到决定性的作用的，人的性格决定以后是否成功，性格不易更改，但是后期的培养却可以改变以后的道路，波波衷心希望大家在日常生活中也能修心养性，找回自己，展现出最好的自己！
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